I was arguing with my friend about the question of fate. I think that most of things depend on us, we build our life ourselves. It always gives us several roads to choose from and each of them is for us to learn something or work at some trates of character. The fact is that everything depends on you, life only gives you situations to go through.
My friend thinks that everything is destined and we live according to some gear.
So, it is useless to argue about such things, every person has his own point of view. We will never know what the real answer to this question is.